छूत और अछूत व्यस्था और तार्किक एवं वैज्ञानिक कारण

कई दिनों से कुछ हिंदी में लिखने का मन था

कई दिनों से छूत और अछूत के बारे में लिखने की इच्छा भी थी पर मौका नहीं मिल पा रहा था.

आज मौका भी है और कोई दूसरा कम भी नहीं है हाँथ में तो सोचा की क्यों ना इस बारे में ही लिखा जाये और हिंदी में ही लिखा जाये.

मेरे दादा जी हमेशा कहा करते थे की हमारे देश में जो भी नियम बने थे उनके पीछे कोई ना कोई वैज्ञानिक या तार्किक कारण होते थे लेकिन कालांतर में समय के साथ वो सारे कारण रुढियो में बदल गए और हम लोग अन्धविश्वास में उन साडी रुढियो को मानते चले गए. ऐसे ही कई नियम/ रुढियो में एक है छूत और अछूत भावना का होना.

पहले जब छूत और अछूत का नियम बनाया गया था यह नियम कर्म प्रधान था लेकिन बाद में यही नियम कर्म प्रधान होने के बजाय जन्म प्रधान हो गया. मेरे कहने का मतलब ये है की पहले जो लोग गन्दगी वाले काम करते थे उन्हें ही अछूत माना जाता था लेकिन बाद में उस कुल में जन्म लेने वाले हर व्यक्ति को अछूत माना जाने लगा.

जैसा की मैंने कहा की लगभग हर नियम के पीछे एक तार्किक या वैज्ञानिक कारण होता था इस नियम के साथ भी ऐसे ही कारण जुड़े हुए थे.

जिन लोगो को पहले अछूत माना जाता था वो या तो चर्मकारी के कार्य करते थे या फिर सफाई के कार्य करते थे और बाकि वो सभी वर्ग जिन्हें अछूत नहीं माना जाता था ऐसे कार्य करते थे जिनमे गन्दगी से कोई सरोकार नहीं था. ये सभी व्यक्ति जो अछूत वर्ण के थे उनके शरीरो में गन्दगी एवम गन्दगी में रहने वाले किटानू से होने वाली बिमारियों के प्रति प्रतिरोधक छमता विकसित हो चुकी थी अतः उन्हें तो इन बीमारियों के होने के अंदेशा कम ही था लेकिन उनका शरीर प्रतिरोधक होने के बाद भी बिमारियों का वाहक तो बन ही सकता था.

अब यदि हम बात करे ब्राहमण लोगो को तो वो लोग सबेरे उठ कर सबसे पहले स्नानादि करते थे फिर पूजा करते थे और फिर बाकि जो भी कार्य होते थे उन्हें पूरा करते थे कई ब्राहमण समुदाय के ऐसे व्यक्ति भी थे जो दो बार स्नान और ध्यान करते थे, अब चूंकि ये व्यक्ति अत्यधिक साफ सफाई से रहने वाले थे एवं इन लोगो के शरीर में वो प्रतिरोधक छमता नहीं थी जो अछूत वर्ण के लोगो के शरीर में बन चुकी थी अतः अछूत लोगो का स्पर्श इनके लिए स्पष्ट रूप से घातक था और उस घातक स्थिति से निकलने के लिए एक नियम बना दिया गया छूत और अछूत का जो की कालांतर में एक कुरीति बन गई और ये व्यवस्था कर्म प्रधान होने के बजे जनम प्रधान हो गई.

आज भी यदि हमारे परिवार का ही कोई सदस्य यदि पाखाना (toilet ) साफ कर के आता है तो उसे कहा जाता है की पहले नहा लो फिर बाकि के काम करो जिसका कारण है की जो भी बीमारी के कीटाणु सफाई के समय उस व्यक्ति से लगे होंगे वो नहाने के बाद साफ हो जायेंगे.

ये व्यवस्था जब बनी थी तब कर्म प्रधान व्यवस्था के अनुसार यह व्यवस्था सही थी लेकिन जब यही व्यवस्था जन्म प्रधान हो गई तो सही व्यवस्था गलत हो गई.

उम्मीद करता हूँ की यह जानकारी आपके लिए उपयोगी रही

Bad things come with Good

I just finished my dinner in midnight and past 30 minute that is 00:30 hour and started writing extract of my whole day but I will be able to post it tomorrow (logically) or in morning (theoretically) as my internet connection is not working since last 4 days thanks to my ISP ;) fortunately in this post ISP is going to play a keen role.

It was a tough day for me, I won’t say a bad day because finally I completed everything that I took in my hand other than one that’s my daughters vaccination will have to go again for that.

Well good and bad happen with everyone and if we count only bad things that happened with us life will be a hell in that case. I believe we should count only good thing or at least end result of all good and bad things.

My day started with a bad argument but due to that argument I was able to save my lot of precious time and I hope in future I will have a better attention from them it was good in my days start.

After that I went to Dr for my daughter’s vaccination but that Dr Denied for vaccination with a stupid reply that they cannot do vaccination for one child as it will not give them complete cost. Now I am not going to waste my time for that Dr. Tomorrow morning I will be going at better place for this. Good thing with this is that I won’t have to go to that Dr at 12noon for vaccination stupid time.

After that sales guy from one of ISP for my company called me for new financials for line up gradation and we finalized new pricing but when I received mail for same it was again a new hiked price but after a short discussion I was able to fix the deal on previous price that was another good thing for me. This will increase my backup line connection by 6 times in practical way and 8 times in logical way.

I was already in talk with another ISP for my existing internet line up gradation. Yesterday they gave me a demo of upgraded connection I was happy with speed but today when I was about to shift my load on new line, new line failed and I had nothing in my hand other than just waiting. Those ISP guys took more than 7 hour to identify and restore my problem and because of this I got angry but greatest thing were I was able to control my anger. At the end of the day they repaired my connection and I shifted my entire internet Load on this new line.

Now I have practically double speed and logically it increased by 8 times. Earlier it was 1:4 but now its 1:1 good enough for my needs.

It was a tough day for me, I started feeling headache due to 7 hour pointless exercise with ISP guys and other good and bad but with belief on “if end is good everything is good” theory I ended my day with full of energy for next day.

Bad thing happened with me but with all those bad I got good as well. This bad is not going to bug me again but all the good that I found with these bad is going to last longer and will be useful for me as well.

After morning I am going to be busy in another big task with full of my energy and time so completing this post in night only

Today I felt proud on an unknown guy of my City(Indore).

Today Morning one guy asked me to give him lift. I stopped my bike because he was physically challenged and I try to help all those who need and deserve help.

He is completely physically challenged by one part of his body. Leg is not in good enough to walk him straight, one eye is half closed not sure if he can see with it, on hand is also not in good condition.

I asked him where he want to go and he told me till Agniban Press( City mid day news paper). I asked him again “what you will do there” and his reply was “I sell news paper”, I asked him “how you can sell news paper in this kind of health” and what he replied was not only shocking but also very informative and a lesson to all those who say god dint give us.

He said to me “with this kind of health and my educational background I can earn money either by begging or work like this. As long as my body’s one part is working fine I will not go for begging.” This statement gave me a moment of pride that I gave him lift on my bike and this is definitely a teaching for all those who say god is not fair enough with them. This guy has no complaint for god.

When I dropped him at his destination he thanked me with a great smile for lift and went for his work with full of energy.

5 years back Director of my company said “Indore ke logo me kam karne ki aag nahi hai, jajba nahi hai” but few are there who have that fire and I found that fire in this guy.

6 Year with InfoBeans, my wonderfull time

Today I have completed six years with my present company. It’s a long time and if I see back I have lot and lot of memories related to my company, my growth and changes in me.

When I joined InfoBeans I was a kid now I have a kid.

I can still remember the day when I joined InfoBeans as an office boy with a hope of big success. My one friend was working here as an office boy and he left it due to his own reason. I heard lot and lot about company from him and that all forced me to join even as an office boy. When I joined InfoBeans I had nothing else other than believes on me and a hope for better future.

Today I am good in technology and in communication as well but when I joined InfoBeans I was a blank paper in terms of technology, in fact I never ever started a computer before and if we talk about communication I was only ok but not as good as I am today.

I can still remember the day when co-founder of the company Mr Avinash Sethi introduced me with HR manager and said AP will work in place vipin. I like people in company but not my job. I promised myself I will not work for more than one year in this job and that came true as well will talk about that in latter on.

My initial job was to serve tea dusting and cleaning of computer but what I liked most was working on computers. I used to chat with unknown people in my free time on free computers and I am very much thankful to my boss Mr Avinash Sehi, he never said anything to me that time when he found me chatting on net or even sleeping in office on computer table. I must say I couldn’t have done it without his silent support.

I can still feel happiness in deep of me when I opened hardware of a computer in guidance of Vishal a very good guy and computer geek. He is a guy who is always respectable for me. He taught me lot of things about computer. Later on I learnt Os installation and software installation. Today it may be a simple thing for me but I can remember the day when I first did it.

First time teaching of installation to me was delivered by Mr Avinash Sethi although I was not able to learn anything solid that day but later on he asked me to install “windows 2000 professional” on few machines. I was not good in that I knew but I learnt that all from Vijay, he taught me that all that day and then I never saw back. I learnt installation of OS, driver installation and network configuration on that day. I believe that was a mile stone for me in my entire career.

After that my chatting habits started decreasing and searching and learning habit started improving. After this I joined vs.net course that was run by InfoBeans only. I was not able to utilise many things that time from that particular course but now I understand that course was another mile stone in shaping my career. I used to solve hardware and some software problem of team member but after that course I used to ask for particular problem and searched every solution as per that problem only.

I was 13th person when I joined and after that team grown only 15 but when Mitesh (co-founder of InfoBeans) came from US we grown from 15 to 25 and 35, we had not enough space for 35 people. Company was looking for new place but that was a time consuming process. It was the time when I first time made a network cable, I understand what switch and hubs are, I learnt what basic difference between hub and switch is. When we grew from 15 to 25 I learnt first time how to make network cables. It was taught to me by Ravish Katiyar one of very good friend of Vijay and mine too.

After that I made networks in another office that we taken only for education classes, then I visited Bhopal for 2 days for creating network for coaching centre in Bhopal. I recived call from Mitesh that time that I had to create few new machines for few new joiner who is going to join on Monday and it was Sunday. I completed my work in Bhopal on Sunday itself came back to Indore worked whole night and created 4 new machines for next day morning. It was time when my confidence boosted at very high level.

Many things and incidence went after that but I have one incidence that I do not want to forget ever. That time only Mitesh was in indore office from management and he used to take lunch with all of us. That very particular day we all were taking lunch and Mitesh was seating on centre chair of table and I was seating just opposite to him at other end of table. In some other talk Mitesh said “indore ke logo me aag nahi hai” and I immediacy asked “aur jin logo me aag hai wo” he replied “wo log is table par baithe hain”. He said it intentionally or unintentionally I don’t know but that boosted my moral on another higher level.

After that I had some dispute with my HR manager about my position and very next day Mitesh told me “AP we want that you work as QA analyst not as office boy”. This is most precious moment of my life till this time. That day changed my entire life and now I am a network admin.

After this I created network for new office in 48 hour, made many new things learnt many new things but my first year was most precious year in InfoBeans. I can write many pages continuously about my work experience with InfoBeans but that would be much bigger for a blog post.

In last I must say thanks to few person without whom it was not possible for me to do anything

Thanks to CEO and co-founder of company and my immediate manager Mr Avinash Sethi, without his support I couldn’t have done it.

Thanks to Co-founder and president of company Mr Mitesh Bohra, he believed on me and gave me chances to prove myself.

Thanks to Mr Siddharth, I never got the chance to work with him closely but his one approval to me made me a person who doesn’t feel fear in speaking truth. He approved my one leave when I asked for it because I had to go with my friend for giving him support as he got unselected in IIT and he was feeling down. He approved even it was not acceptable as per him and that gave me courage to speak truth

I am very much Thank full to Vishal, Anshul Kumar, Vikrant ji (InfoBeans hardware vendor), Ravish Katiyar (network admin) and Lovleet jain ( project manager in InfoBeans), Anoop Tiwari Sir(he taught vs.net to me and he is only person in InfoBeans whom I call sir) and Samanvay (his name should be saint not samanvay) and other team member for support that they gave me.

Above all names are from indore team but I cannot miss name of pune team. I must say thanks to entire pune team but special thanks to Amol

Amol darfade : a guy who always love to make fun with other in a way that no buddy get hurt and every one enjoy it. He helped me a lot to overcome with a frustrated mind in my pune stay.

Three more names are there without whom I couldn’t have done it but I am cant to say thanks to them because I believe thanks would be a very small word for them and what they did for me is much bigger than that.

Vijay: He taught me how to work and how to learn things by myself using Google. I spent many hours looking at his finger on keyboard and his monitor screen while he works. I learnt many things from him including personality attitude.

Kannan: I always had some kind of argument with him on some funny mater and he always accepted it. He treated me as a kid as a student and I always believed on him as a mentor and teacher.

Paridhi : She taught me installation of nero and how to burn CD/DVD first time but thats not enough, she always supported me for many things.She guided me always and at present she is one the most respectable person for me

During this 6 years time many up and down came in my life many things and many friends came and went away from my life but one thing that never changed in these all years is my company and I don’t want to change it unless I start something of my own. Hoping for best

I joined InfoBeans 6 years back with a hope of good future, I received good future and growth and I don’t think I could have done it without InfoBeans. I travelled a lot in last six years but I don’t have time to take rest I have to go miles away and I have to keep walking with a steady speed.

In last thanks again to InfoBeans and to all who gave me chance to work with them.

3 goddes in my family as per my dad

I came to home from hospital thinking I will sleep today as I was not able to sleep with relax mind since several weeks but now I am not able to sleep due to happiness.

So for utilizing time I started writing.

Today I became papa of a sweet girl in noon 12.05 IST. I was waiting outside labor room with my mom and I heard a baby crying from inside. My mom heard sound and said to me we have laxmi in our family. She was so happy and so do I. When I took her first time in my hand I felt a feeling that I never felt before.

Everyone in my family is so happy and enjoying this moment. Every one commented many thing but I felt great happiness and more proud on my dad.

Native place of my father is a typical village of UP where most of the people think if a girl is born in your family that means it’s a curse on family, my grandfather had same feeling for several years but my dad never beloved on this theory. My dad always opposed my grandpa for this thinking and he had very strong reason for this as well.

My dad always believed that every woman has a goddess in her.

After my marriage he used to tell me we have all 3 supreem deity, goddess Laxmi (my grandma) , goddess Annpurna (my mom), goddess Durga (my wife) in our family but we may not have Goddess Laxmi for several years as my grand ma is too old now.

My dad always belived his mother as Goddess Laxmi who is goddess of wealth and money. Whatever wealth we have in terms of property from last generation that we have because of my grandma only and dad always said this thing to my grandpa and to me also.

My dad always believed his wife (my mom) as Goddess annpurana who is goddess of foods and other similar things in home. Strong reason behind this is that my mom made sure no buddy sleep hungry in family.

My dad always belived his daughter in law (my wife) as goddess Durga who is goddess of power and who keep good people safe from evils. I am still alive just because of my wife and my dad strongly believes on this.

Now dad told me son we have 2 Laxmi in our family and we are most happy family now.

Whenever I hear this kind of wordings from my dad I feel pride again and again on my dad and I feel shame on all those guys who don’t celebrate when they get a Durga,Laxmi or Annpurna in their family.

Mai papa ban gaya

I am blessed with baby daughter today 12.30PM IST.

Deedi(my elder sister) ordered me to stay at home so she can go and see my daughter, it was feeling like impossible for me to wait but had no option so started writing.

Till yesterday I was too tired, nervous, tensed, confused but today I am flying highest in sky. When I heard crying voice of her I felt a tremendous joy, when I took her in my arms I felt like most hapy person in world. It was greatest feeling I ever had in my entire life. All the exertion of last several months is gone; I do not have word to explain this but what I can do is I can share photos of my sweetheart.

Time is killing me

I was waiting for a big day in my life since last several months.

I waited for this time to come all these months but now when months is converted in day hours or minutes or may be in seconds I don’t know it’s getting tougher for me to wait. Every minute is like years for me. It’s not even half of the day.

Time never walked like this terrible slow speed for me ever before.

Feeling crying, feeling confused, feeling tensed and nervous and feeling too happy.

I don’t know what my situation is but I am not in condition to give a name of my condition.

Don’t have long sleep in my eyes since several days but yesterday it was completely sleepless, not feeling like sleepy.

I am shivering due to thrill and excitement.

I know it’s impossible for anyone else to understand what I wrote but I am feeling better after writing it here.

Keeping finger crossed, waiting for time and believing on supreme soul that everything will be great.

Will write more now on regular basis from now onwards

क्या आप श्री नरेन्द्र मोदी से सहमत है।

आज जब अख़बार पढ़ा तो देश के नेताओं की कारगुजारियों पर खुद को पहली बार शर्मशार महसूस करने लगा,


श्री नरेन्द्र मोदी (गुजरात के मुख्यमंत्री) का किसी एक पार्टी विशेष के लिए दिया गया बयान पढ़ कर मुझे मेरी आँखों में नमी महसूस होने लगी. मुझे उस पार्टी से कोई मतलब नहीं है जिसके खिलाफ मोदी जी ने ये बयान दिया लेकिन उनका बयान हर उस व्यक्ति को एक गाली की तरह लगेगा जो अपनी दादी या नानी को बहोत प्यार करता है और ये चाहता है की वो हमेशा उसके साथ रहे.

श्री मोदी ने बयान में कहा था की " कांग्रेस १३० साल पुरानी पार्टी है जबकि बीजेपी ३० साल की जवान, कांग्रेस बूढी औरत की तरह समाज पर बोझ है और उसको चल बसना चाहिए , वो जवानों के किसी काम की नहीं है."

मै ये नहीं समझ पा रहा हूँ की मोदी जी के अनुसार क्या एक औरत सिर्फ सेक्स की वस्तू है और कुछ नहीं. क्या मोदी जी उनकी माँ के लिए भी यही कहते हैं की आप आब बूढी हो गई है और आपको चल बसना चाहिएऔर अगर मोदी जी के अनुसार एक बूढी औरत समाज पर बोझ है तब हर हर बूढी औरत समाज पर बोझ होगी और हर बूढी औरत को चल बसना चाहिए.

मै कभी नहीं चाहूँगा की मेरी बूढी दादी या नानी को कुछ भी हो. मेरी दादी ने मुझे कई ऐसी बाते सिखाई है जो की मेरी माँ ने मुझे कभी नहीं सिखाई और मेरे लिए मेरी बूढी दादी कभी बोझ नहीं थी, अब मेरी माँ भी बूढी हो रही है और मै कभी ये नहीं चाहूँगा की वो चल बसे.

मै मेरे एक दोस्त से इसी विषय पर बात कर रहा था और उसने मुझे पूंछा की ये नेता किस स्कूल में पढ़े थे यार हम लोगो को मेरे कभी ऐसे शिक्षा नहीं मिली की एक बूढी औरत समाज पर बोझ होती है और उसे चल बसना चाहिए.

और तब मेरा जवाब था की ये कम से कम हिंदुस्तान के किसी भी स्कूल में नहीं पढ़े हैं क्योंकि हिंदुस्तान में मेरे हर बूढी औरत को दादी या नानी कहना सिखाया जाता है चाहे वो बूढी औरत किसी भी मजहब की क्यों न हो.

मै यहाँ पर मोदी जी के खिलाफ लिख रहा हूँ फिर भी उन्हें इज्जत दे रहा हूँ क्योंकि वो एक प्रदेश के मुख्यमंत्री है और किसी भी मुख्यमंत्री की इज्जत करना हर भारतीयका कर्तव्य है.

मोदी जी ने प्रदेश में काफी कुछ करा लेकिन यदि आप माँ के सामान महिलाओ की इज्जत नहीं कर सकते तब मेरे अनुसार आप ने काफी कुछ खो दिया है

मोदी जी एक अच्छे नेता है लेकिन यह कह कर आप खुद को एक बुरा इन्सान साबित करते हैं और जो अच्छा इन्सान न हो वो अच्छा नेता होगा इस बात की क्या guarantee है.

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